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Hey have you ever ran an approach with people watching, got blown out, and then had people pointing at you? Or even laughing? How bout your friends? "HAHA YOU GOT FUCKING REJECTED! HAHA THIS GUY IS SAPOSTA BE ONE OF THOSE "PICKUP ARTISTS AND THAT GIRL JUST FUCKED HIM UP! HAHAHA *takes a drink of his booze*. You know that feeling of failure you get at that exact moment? Its meaningless. You know what feels worse than that? Not approaching. You know what feels even worse than not approaching? Not doing it because "you don't wanna fail infront of people". This is the worst feeling ever because it hinders you from doing what you want because a bunch of people who don't give a shit might talk some meaningless shit.
Have you ever been out with co-workers? Family friends? School mates? Etc. And you don't wanna run game because of what they might think? What they might say at work? What they might say at school? Image the rumors people are going to spread: "We were out last night and this guy kept talking to girls and getting rejected. What a fucking loser". "DUDE last night after work we went to jillies. thefader walked up to some hot girl in there who proceeded to just shut him down infront of everyone. We were all laughing at how stupid this guy looked. What the fuck was he thinking? Haha here comes the loser right now! Haha hey rejected boy! Get rejected lately you fucking loser? HAHAHA!"
You know whats crazy? Letting something like this stop you from doing something you want to do. Something thats in your best interest. Something that you've been thinking about doing.
Its not in the best interest of the group for you to be getting top girls. Out with people who you've connected with through work or school situations or whatever esp when you have low status in the group. When people around you think youre shit it doesn't fit into their reality the fact that you deal with top girls. How would it? Huh? These people pointing the finger, making fun of you, spreading rumors, etc they're playing group games. They're doing that shit to maintain all the group shit. I'm higher up than you are, I make more money than you, your shit. I tell you soemthing about 'group shit', its a fools game and the only people who come close to anything that would resemeble the smallest part of nothing are the people with value who are leading. And at that its nothing.
In a social group, how would someone with no value start getting value? Assuming they had no real value to offer? You guessed it! Manufacture it. The easiest way to do this is talking shit. When you have nothing to say at all, talking shit is the easiest way to make people laugh, get other people talking shit, and then all of a sudden people like you because 'youre the man'. Awesome position to be in BTW.
Whats better than this? Imagine you have zero value. Imagine no one likes you and no one gives a shit about you. How could you turn this around? Well you could point to something, say IT (example FUCK NINTENDO 64 AND FUCK THE LOSERS WHO PLAY NINTENDO 64), and if you say it loud enough, people are going come out of no where and agree with you. All of a sudden you're a leader in the FUCK NINTENDO 64 MOVEMENT. Now you have a website. Now you have followers. Now you have sheep spreading your message. Now you have value. A lot of it.
When you understand someone is attacking you, and talking shit about you because they have no other way of creating value, it makes these attacks more funny than anything. Its laughable. When you understand the real position of these attacks, it goes from laughable to sad. When you understand its from a position of lack. A reflection of something inside them. This is twice as true when you hate yourself. When you hate yourself more than anything it makes these kind of attacks oh so easy and oh so sweet.
When you have nothing, you are nothing, and you hate yourself, schadenfreude feels better than an orgasm.
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02-14-2010, 01:38 PM
